Whew! Its been a while since I've made a topic!
So, I offered to help a fellow CB7 owner install his new coil sleeves- I told him since I have the tools, a garage and I have installed the kind he has before, I would be happy to help.
I also explicitly stated that HE would have to do the majority of the grunt work.
Another CB7 owner, (who is going to immediately recognize this situation- but I ask that he remain as general as I am being, should he decide to post) came with him.
Thank Goodness he came too!
Myself and this other member ended up doing the install.
It took from 7pm till 2 in the morning.(Because we had to turn the compressor off at 11- my kids/BF were sleeping in rooms next to the garage)
The owner of the car walked around, on his phone, watching us- sometimes.
His level of disinterest about learning to work on his ride was...disappointing.
I would call him over to show him things he NEEDED to know- but towards the end (12am+) I was over it.
I had to call him over to TELL him to: "Brake that loose." "Will you do this?" "Do this."
ALL NIGHT.
Wouldn't have been an issue if I had been expecting it, and had charged him. But I didn't, because I thought I was helping someone do their own work; just providing a garage, tools, and experience. He did ask, at the end of the night if I "wanted anything" for my work. I said no, because that was the agreement previously made.
Here's the problem.
He has other parts, and when we discussed doing the suspension- we discussed doing those.
He even asked me in the middle of doing the suspension if we would have time to get to the other parts....
Now he has hit me up repeatedly, wanting to install these parts... and I don't wanna fuck with it. Especially for FREE.
Also, the majority of the tools we have, have been moved to the BF's new shop- so HE would have to tote the nessisary tools back and forth- and that is a PITA. (Some socket forgotten is about an hour away!)
I told him the tools had moved to the shop, and it didn't seem to register what that meant, he kept hitting me up about it.
Finally, when he posted a comment about installing his parts on a totally unrelated post on FB, I commented that it would be $75 to get it done at my BF's shop.
I don't want to get a rep as a bitch- (cause I don't think I have been) and I am worried that this mo'fo will run his mouth b/c I "backed out on him".
I need a way to nicely say, "You suck at helping, and I don't wanna wrench on YOUR shit alone." and not have him mud slinging all over FB and forums. I am a little too "direct" sometimes, and I am not trying to create butthurt and drama.
I don't usually want money, anyway. I want to "teach". If a fellow is willing to learn, and do the hard work-I have no problem providing help for free.
Thoughts/Suggestions?
So, I offered to help a fellow CB7 owner install his new coil sleeves- I told him since I have the tools, a garage and I have installed the kind he has before, I would be happy to help.
I also explicitly stated that HE would have to do the majority of the grunt work.
Another CB7 owner, (who is going to immediately recognize this situation- but I ask that he remain as general as I am being, should he decide to post) came with him.
Thank Goodness he came too!
Myself and this other member ended up doing the install.
It took from 7pm till 2 in the morning.(Because we had to turn the compressor off at 11- my kids/BF were sleeping in rooms next to the garage)
The owner of the car walked around, on his phone, watching us- sometimes.
His level of disinterest about learning to work on his ride was...disappointing.
I would call him over to show him things he NEEDED to know- but towards the end (12am+) I was over it.
I had to call him over to TELL him to: "Brake that loose." "Will you do this?" "Do this."
ALL NIGHT.
Wouldn't have been an issue if I had been expecting it, and had charged him. But I didn't, because I thought I was helping someone do their own work; just providing a garage, tools, and experience. He did ask, at the end of the night if I "wanted anything" for my work. I said no, because that was the agreement previously made.
Here's the problem.
He has other parts, and when we discussed doing the suspension- we discussed doing those.
He even asked me in the middle of doing the suspension if we would have time to get to the other parts....
Now he has hit me up repeatedly, wanting to install these parts... and I don't wanna fuck with it. Especially for FREE.
Also, the majority of the tools we have, have been moved to the BF's new shop- so HE would have to tote the nessisary tools back and forth- and that is a PITA. (Some socket forgotten is about an hour away!)
I told him the tools had moved to the shop, and it didn't seem to register what that meant, he kept hitting me up about it.
Finally, when he posted a comment about installing his parts on a totally unrelated post on FB, I commented that it would be $75 to get it done at my BF's shop.
I don't want to get a rep as a bitch- (cause I don't think I have been) and I am worried that this mo'fo will run his mouth b/c I "backed out on him".
I need a way to nicely say, "You suck at helping, and I don't wanna wrench on YOUR shit alone." and not have him mud slinging all over FB and forums. I am a little too "direct" sometimes, and I am not trying to create butthurt and drama.
I don't usually want money, anyway. I want to "teach". If a fellow is willing to learn, and do the hard work-I have no problem providing help for free.
Thoughts/Suggestions?
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