I have realized a simple truth about women, one I feel might be of use to the guy who isn't an asshole.
I know a lot of guys that for one reason or another, just can't seem to find a "nice" girl, and they take what comes their way, like a leaf on the breeze. Often, an emotionally immature/damaged/crayyyyzy biiiiitch
"No More!" I say.
I know you guys don't like long posts, so I will come to my postulate: That the real thing that women like about "assholes" is that they hold themselves in such high esteem.
Much above most other men,and sometimes higher than their standards really are, and that's why girls try to throw themselves at them....They want to be held higher than that place a man hold himself.
Now, self respect is a fine line walked in attitude- but it actually is a set of rules you make for yourself, about what YOU deserve in life, and really sticking to them. Also, treating the women you date (the ones you choose to date) far above how you treat other girls. You have to value you, before other people do. You deserve the best.
You do not have to be a dick, but if you allow yourself to be used, to not take care of yourself- your responsibilities- or allow yourself to believe that you'll "take what you can get"; than those thoughts define you to other people, especially women. Attraction is less about compatibility at first, at first it is lust. Are you a lust object?
You should be. To yourself.
Discuss as you like.
I know a lot of guys that for one reason or another, just can't seem to find a "nice" girl, and they take what comes their way, like a leaf on the breeze. Often, an emotionally immature/damaged/crayyyyzy biiiiitch
"No More!" I say.
I know you guys don't like long posts, so I will come to my postulate: That the real thing that women like about "assholes" is that they hold themselves in such high esteem.
Much above most other men,and sometimes higher than their standards really are, and that's why girls try to throw themselves at them....They want to be held higher than that place a man hold himself.
Now, self respect is a fine line walked in attitude- but it actually is a set of rules you make for yourself, about what YOU deserve in life, and really sticking to them. Also, treating the women you date (the ones you choose to date) far above how you treat other girls. You have to value you, before other people do. You deserve the best.
You do not have to be a dick, but if you allow yourself to be used, to not take care of yourself- your responsibilities- or allow yourself to believe that you'll "take what you can get"; than those thoughts define you to other people, especially women. Attraction is less about compatibility at first, at first it is lust. Are you a lust object?
You should be. To yourself.
Discuss as you like.
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