How to look older?

[Bullhorn7]

Im 20 as of last week and I still get hit on by preteen girls and looked down on by girls my own age.


Iv asked dozens of people they all say I look 14-16, Im 5'10 and 120lb's very skinny and I struggle with my weight to even keep it at that... So what are some things I could do to maybe put some years on my appearance so I can at least get a girl to look at me without referring to my best friend as my dad

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[Tippey764]

Post a picture of yourself.

[Bullhorn7]

picture^

[Losiracer2]

get a haircut and workout/bulk up? To me your hair looks disheveled/messy, a sign of a young kid or someone who doesn't take care of himself, no offense.

[Tippey764]

Do you wear glasses?

I feel like the problem lyes somewhere in the nose / eye / cheek area. Your skin is very consistent and smooth looking so it gives off a sort of younger appearance. Well thats what i think

I'd try some glasses first and see if that helps

Also your hair is kinda on the borderline area of " i like my hair long " or " i need it cut to go back to short ". So take it one direction or another.

And its hardly messy, shit my hair is worse than that.

[BurtonRiderT6]

Get a full time job that involves lots of stress and frustration. That should get you aging pretty quickly.

[apuforyou]

A different, shorter haircut would definitely help





And if possible.. Grow some facial hair. Without my beard, I look like a 15 year old

[zmanwit90accord]

And if possible.. Grow some facial hair. Without my beard, I look like a 15 year old

This is just about the best way to look older. When have my beard grown out a few weeks, it adds at least 4-5 years to my actual age.

My friends joke around and say I look like a 40 year old man but I usually get taken for a 22-23 year old. I'm 5' 10"ish and about 150lbs right now.

[Chrisisiced]

You'll definitely need a haircut. You've got that bieber look going on.

[deevergote]

The way you have your hair is popular for people between the ages of 15 to 25 or so... but you have a youthful look, so it makes you look younger. I agree with those that say change the hair.
Can you grow a beard/mustache/goatee... hell, even sideburns?

When I was younger, I looked WAY young without my goatee. Sadly, I look older than I am with it (and now that it's going gray, I look older still!)

Another thing you can do is dress "older". Hell, my senior year of high school, I wore a shirt and tie (pubic school.) Everyone, including teachers and hall monitors, thought I was older. They thought I was a teacher! I tried it on my first day in college, and some girl asked me what class I taught.

Of course, there's also simply changing the way you act, and what you do. If you act 20, you'll be perceived as 20.

[Lynx]

Im 29 and have a full beard and still get id'd to by liquor lmao

[toycar]

Get a tan, a hair cut and grow some muscles.

[JDM_CB7_TX]

I do have to agree with the hair cut. If not cutting it maybe styling would help. If you are a t & jeans guy like myself. Mix it up with collared shirts too.

[cuate01221]

I always thought you were a big black Guy but anyway if you cut your hair I bet you would look 3-4 years old than you do now

[eriemoto.]

Agree with most opinions in here, get a haircut and start working out.