GirlFriend Wanting 3some!?

[deevergote]

do you realize that by you testing her with fake aliases you're showing how much you don't trust her? In purely honest, trustworthy relationships people do not resort to such actions.

I think in this case, he has a right to doubt her. If she wants to bring someone else into their relationship, it's very likely that she's already had a relationship with someone else outside of the relationship... and that has already gotten boring and stale.


I agree that she seems to have serious issues. She's not stable, and if she hasn't already broken your heart, take this as a warning... because there's no doubt in my mind that she will.




As for people not wanting to cheat or venture outside of a happy relationship... that's true. I've learned from my own experience that you CAN be blind to someone else's unhappiness while they're getting it somewhere else. If she isn't communicating her wants to you, then you may never know... and she may satisfy herself otherwise. Bringing someone else into your bed may be one of two things... an attempt to spice things up and keep thing going with you... or an attempt to simply satisfy herself... and you are fairly inconsequential.





I say do it. Enjoy it. Leave it in the dust. You can do better.

[stewie]

yeah, sorry to hear the bad news that this thing is on a crash course...but hey...why not make the best of it??? put a video camera up...tape that shit....post it!!

send it to her parents...her cousins....her friends....do something man..make the best out of a shitty situation..

but yeah, if shes bi, shes probably been gettin some on the side, and asking you to join in could be a last attempt to find that "spark" again??

i know a few people who are older...in their 40's....and they all say the same thing...3somes should only be fantasys...once u let a chick get with another chick, she'll realise that the guy really isnt that usefull....

[kc8enb07]

She doesn't like me I was blind dudes. I made up that fake account and she talked to me " a dude she doesn't know" like a hooker.

Even me as a guy had the chance to cheat on her a while ago and you know as much as my hormones at first pushed me to, my love for her got over them and I didn't and her as for a girl talks to guys online like she's a bitch.


Aw and my fucking CB7 is sitting in the garage getting nothing done to it.

use the other account to set up a meeting w/ her. if she shows, then u are for sure and should feel bad bc u need to let that one go and u seen w/ your own eyes shed go around your back. or send a friend she doesnt know and follow close behind

[hondaccordgrl]

use the other account to set up a meeting w/ her. if she shows, then u are for sure and should feel bad bc u need to let that one go and u seen w/ your own eyes shed go around your back. or send a friend she doesnt know and follow close behind

haha cb7 tuners to the rescue!!!

do this, and one of our "hot" cb7 guys will meet with her and you follow and see if she tries to make some moves.

Shit if I lived closer to you, I would so chat with her, and make her come onto me Id even get her to come home with me, and tie her up to the bed, naked and be like, Ill be right back, and go open the front door for you



sorry but let one of us cb7ers help you. Make a meeting with her, liek this weekend or something and see if she takes the bait. if she does, let one of the cb7ers meet with her, do something with her, and go confront her. simple as that

good luck on your adventures

[Gyuri87]

haha cb7 tuners to the rescue!!!

do this, and one of our "hot" cb7 guys will meet with her and you follow and see if she tries to make some moves.

Shit if I lived closer to you, I would so chat with her, and make her come onto me Id even get her to come home with me, and tie her up to the bed, naked and be like, Ill be right back, and go open the front door for you



sorry but let one of us cb7ers help you. Make a meeting with her, liek this weekend or something and see if she takes the bait. if she does, let one of the cb7ers meet with her, do something with her, and go confront her. simple as that

good luck on your adventures

Haha. Yes you guys are indeed very supportive and helpful and I appreciate that. When I'm just by myself, I always have the best laughs on here.

Anyway. I'm not according it to much importance right now. I'll try and sort things out before I despair.

[bcjammerx]

grow the hell up...dump her ass...move on...you do NOT want this shit.

you don't need kids with a nasty ho for a momma and you don't what the std's she'll end up giving you.

[MikeW]

Go for the threesome, and bang the SHIT out of her cousin right in front of her. When you're done, say "she was better than you" and walk out.

Seriously bro, i almost hate to say "I told you so.." but....

If she was so happy, why would she want a 3some? Yeah, ppl try new things, but 3somes only end in 1 of 3 ways: 1-Break-up; 2-Cheating w/ 3rd person; 3-An awesome time.

And a majority of the time, as i mentioned posts ago, the idea or surfacing of a 3some "idea" is because something isnt cutting it. Be it you, your attitude, the sex, or maybe she's just a crazy-nympho bitch who needs sex all the time and just isnt ready to settle down. And chicks/ppl who are "bi" are usually that way for a reason. They can commit or are afraid to commit to one thing. They leave themselves open to/for both, that way, no matter what, they get some. Which, in turn, means they arent Long-Term Relationship material. Im sorry for the loss, man, i really am. But it sounds like maybe this was the tail-end anyway...

I like the idea of setting something up with her and then you showing up and confronting her. Dont involve a friend. Just get her to meet you somewhere, and show up. If she doesnt think its you, quote something or a s.n. so she gets it. Dont accept her apologies, or anything. Just tell her, with your hands in your pockets, that you had an idea, and now you know...and walk.

Now you know why they say "Nice guys finish last" and "If it sounds too good to be true..it probably is.."

[phatdoughnut]

Just fucking do it, everyone is gona be all into the moment that you are gona get to fuck both of them.. Who cares there is plenty of girls out there if it doesnt work out.

[YellowCord]

could u please hide a camera some where in the room before it happen? paid 5 bux to see the video.

[Maple50175]

hahaa

[alb_accord]

dude don't do anything stupid...... she talked dirty to you on the other account?????? maybe she learned about the other account and wanted to play a sick joke on you.....if you are that insecure about her just take it to the limit.... try to get to know her threw that account or another. play the game for a couple of months then try to meet with her for something xxx.... if she does meet you then you know your relationship is over.... and if indeed its over, be a fucking man and move on. its not going to be easy but you have to move on.


PS.
girls are like little kids. if someone other than the bf will pay attention to them, they will feel all special and think that all the guys want them, so they will keep up with the flirting and shit

[203Cree]

Hey dummy, did you ever stop to think that maybe, just MAYBE, she figured out it was you messaging her? There's a novel idea.

And you've been "testing" her with temptations? Why didn't you just break up with her the first time you had any doubts? All you other cats, you got this wrong. She's not the one that needs to get her head checked out. It is perfectly natural for someone to be sexually active and curious. Variety is the spice of life, as they say.


It is not, however, perfectly natural to intentionally decieve someone you "Love" and try to lure them into a situation that would ruin the relationship.

I have your solution right here. Break up with her and give her to a man that can handle her. Once your done with that, let your sack drop and quit being a jealous little bitch. Seriously, if you never trusted her to begin with, you have/had no buisness wasting any more of her time with what you call a relationship. Without trust there's no relationship, there's just two people that fuck a lot and call each other pet names.

[Gyuri87]

Anyway thanks for all your comments and support guys. For now even though things are a little tense between her and me everything is fine. She hasn't brought up the idea of a 3some no more and things should be just fine soon.

Now the only thing I worry about is my Accord. It's finally getting closer of getting painted. I went to several scrap yards today and managed to finally an "ok" 90-91 bumper cover that could use a little body work before it is put on my car but the whole thing is pretty intact besides the thousands of scratches on it :P. I've been looking for one for weeks now and couldn't find one. I also went to that one scrap yard I saw a driver side headlight I needed since mine cracked in 2 but after 1 hour of hard work trying to remove the bumper since it was put on a very stupid way I realized I put a tiny tiny crack in it in the process. I was so pissed! It was the only intact driver side headlight in the whole yard. I finally got a brand new driver side headlight assembly that also came with the corner light that I don't really need since I'm waiting for my clears but the whole thing costed 95$ due to an error they made so why not. In my luckiness, I also happened to fuck up my passenger side headlight while trying to clean the interior part. A lot of the chromed paint came off. No more fooling around, I'll get the whole assembly for that side too. I like it when things are new and shiny. It's all that's missing before I can bring it to the body shop :P. Also got the rare rear Honda mud flaps that I was missing and an Integra spoiler that I will have to figure out how to fit (couldn't fine an OEM Accord one). I saw some people fit them on their Accords so it can obviously be done.

[12gage]

Just do the 3-way. They way they get in a three way, shell probably push you onto her friend. I had G/F trouble over this. Her protestation didn't last