another gf issue thread.
well, what would you do if this happened?
you call your girl at around 4pm, and she says she's about to play spades, you're at work so you say you'll call back later. she goes to night school, and calls you at 9:30ish, to tell you this:
(abridged)
me: so whats wrong?
her: nothing, my dad thought i didn't go to night school and shit.
me: oh, why would he think that??
her: because i came out, and didn't see him, then walked around the corner to use the pay phone and he rolled up on me. then he said i didn't go to school, and was i hanging out with a guy.
me: damn he's wildin, why the fuck would he think that?
her: i dunno.
me: so did you win any money playin spades earlier (she always plays against her mom for money, so thats why i asked).
her: nah, i wasn't playing for money.
me: so who were you playin?
her: my friend (i forgot if she said friend, or best friend) pablo from school.
me: oh wow, you were playin spades with a guy in ya crib.
:: thought at the time :: now i see why pops thought she wasn't in night school. but how could anything be happening, her mom = cockblock express, so i figure they're in the living room playin cards. but maybe she went somewhere at that time, who knows. then again the father should have also been home, so who knows.
me: oh aight, imma let you go, imma run outside and get a stoagie, call me at like 11.
fyi, 1:35am now, no phone call.
i mean, i'm a jealous guy, but i'm understanding. but then again this isn't something that has ever happened between us, so i'm thinkin something is really up. we never had an argument in the almost 3 months we've been together.
issue is, i have a temper and i'm afraid i might overreact. pretty sure i'd just end up calling it quits.
i never been truly faithful to a girl, until now, this relationship. and feelings are there, its evident between both of us, but i wanna get to the bottom of this shit.
sorry for the novel, someone help me before i flip.
you call your girl at around 4pm, and she says she's about to play spades, you're at work so you say you'll call back later. she goes to night school, and calls you at 9:30ish, to tell you this:
(abridged)
me: so whats wrong?
her: nothing, my dad thought i didn't go to night school and shit.
me: oh, why would he think that??
her: because i came out, and didn't see him, then walked around the corner to use the pay phone and he rolled up on me. then he said i didn't go to school, and was i hanging out with a guy.
me: damn he's wildin, why the fuck would he think that?
her: i dunno.
me: so did you win any money playin spades earlier (she always plays against her mom for money, so thats why i asked).
her: nah, i wasn't playing for money.
me: so who were you playin?
her: my friend (i forgot if she said friend, or best friend) pablo from school.
me: oh wow, you were playin spades with a guy in ya crib.
:: thought at the time :: now i see why pops thought she wasn't in night school. but how could anything be happening, her mom = cockblock express, so i figure they're in the living room playin cards. but maybe she went somewhere at that time, who knows. then again the father should have also been home, so who knows.
me: oh aight, imma let you go, imma run outside and get a stoagie, call me at like 11.
fyi, 1:35am now, no phone call.
i mean, i'm a jealous guy, but i'm understanding. but then again this isn't something that has ever happened between us, so i'm thinkin something is really up. we never had an argument in the almost 3 months we've been together.
issue is, i have a temper and i'm afraid i might overreact. pretty sure i'd just end up calling it quits.
i never been truly faithful to a girl, until now, this relationship. and feelings are there, its evident between both of us, but i wanna get to the bottom of this shit.
sorry for the novel, someone help me before i flip.
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