why haven't he called yet?

[RacerGirl21]

This is for the girls that are out there i mean i was my man last thursaday night after thanksgiving. We talked and i was happy to see him i meani do not see him everyday so he came by and we talked asked me how was my day and i said fine, and told me that he just stayed home playing viedo games and went to his aunt house. I at first was like cool but u should have still came to the dinner i said he just looked at me with a smerk on his face meaning whatever look on his face. I then sat on his lap he told me how he raced the car and went out with one of his friends and beat the other two cars i said that is cool,then i told hm that he should have still came to thanksgiving dinner and he got mad cause i was talking bout it. SO later on that night we were still outside i told him how i brought dessert back for him and lokke da t me weird again and then told me to get off his lap, i was like ok i also tol dhim how i was playing the viedo games and he told me right to my face I NEED TO GROW UP AND STOP BEING SO IMMATURE what are u talking bout i mean i always played around before but do not know what made him mad?

NO CALLS SINCE THURSDAY BUT ONE ON SATURDAY SAYING HE WAS ON THE COMPUTER AND STOP CALLING? THAT REALLY HURT.
I have been calling him since then now his telephone and cell is off and i know he told me that he had to pay bills so i understand that part but no calling makes me worry everyday what is is doing and how is is? Please read this is u are out there
u know how u are
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[5spdintegra]

Just give him his space. Chances are if he dosen't anwser the phone he dosen't want to talk to you. Trust me he's fine.

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[krakakru21]

sorry to hear about that but guys can be jerks at times. maybe it is time to move on and find a guy that will treat you with respect and like you for who you are. good luck

[drag-n-race]

please use commas and periods. i can't read it cause i always get lost.

[aero]

Originally posted by drag-n-race
please use commas and periods. i can't read it cause i always get lost.

True

[RacerGirl21]

thanks eveybody for writing back but i know he will call i mean to fizzbob if u think i am h22's girl i am not saying i take a guess but i know he will come and see me and there is nobody else for me mad ilov ehim dearly with all my heart so i give himt ime but i won't give up on us.

[Sho Nuff]

Periods damnit!!!!!! .

[pr3dSi]

fuk u steve, for deleting my post.....lol

[arrozburner]

that sucks and is totally not cool...personally, i would move on but sounds like you want to work it out so just give him some space. if he wants to still be with you then he'll call you back. if he doesnt call you back then you know he doesnt want to be with you...be strong and let him call you. im sure youve left him messages left and right so he knows that you still want to be with him so now its just up to him...give him some space woman, let him breath and if its meant to be then he'll be back. if not then you could come see me

[pr3dSi]

Originally posted by arrozburner
that sucks and is totally not cool...personally, i would move on but sounds like you want to work it out so just give him some space. if he wants to still be with you then he'll call you back. if he doesnt call you back then you know he doesnt want to be with you...be strong and let him call you. im sure youve left him messages left and right so he knows that you still want to be with him so now its just up to him...give him some space woman, let him breath and if its meant to be then he'll be back. if not then you could come see me

you jus repeated what everyone said.
1.) Give him space- maybe like 5 times in this thread
2.)He'll call you, maybe like 3 times in this thread.

so why mention it again? get to the point and jus say

if not then you could come see me

end of story.

[h22wagon]

if hes gonna be a dick and not let you know whats going on fuck him. dont stress out about bulshit like that. i think just about everybody on this board is too young to worrie about shit like that. just let him call you. do something that keeps your mind off of him and relax

[blamethepunx]

it takes 2 people to make a relationship. if hes buggering off for something as stupid as you wanting him to come to thanksgiving dinner, go kick him in the nuts and spit in his face. ive had many relationships fail due to lack of communication, and it really sounds like hes cutting off the communication completely. he's hurting you, and he's doing it intentionally, thats not what someone who cares about you should do. i really hope he smartens up and calls you back, but if he keeps restricting your access to him then seriously, go see arrozburner :P people in relationships are supposed to be there for each other. theyre supposed to sacrifice some of their time to keep each other happy. some people on here are saying "give him his space" that's all fine and dandy, but if its hurting you to give him as much space as he's taking, then maybe you guys just want different things out of the relationship and you should give him all of the space and take space from someone else. if the boyfriend is on these boards and reading this (i really hope you are, dude) please stop being a dick. sounds like you have yourself a great girl (i mean she's into cars and video games and she likes sitting on your lap :P what more can you want?) suck it up and talk to her. tell her what made you pissed. if she knows what it was, and if she cares about you (which she damn well obviously does) she'll stop doing it and you wont have to be pissed any more. seriously, if something gets under your skin, let the other half know. or else it will keep getting under your skin, and make things worse. be nice to each other and respect each other. maybe he doesnt want to tell you right away, maybe you calling him all the time is just pissing him off more. i dont know the whole situation, and i dont know either of the people involved, im justy going by my experience. i really hope you two work it out

let us know what happens, eh?

[pr3dSi]

how can people give or take advice even when you dont know any of these people, venting your anger-emotions is one thing, but listening to anyone else who u havnt known for a while or doesnt know what kinda of situation your relationship is is useless. So for all these people who are giving her advice BASED on HER side of the story, way to boost her self-confidense, for all you know she could've done the exact same thing to him a while ago. Bottom line:
If u dont know her and you dont know him and you dont know the relationship what makes you think you're telling them the rite thing.

this thread- a good vent
people who posted 'advice'- complete waste of time and bandwidth

[chessboxer]

maybe hes just like the rest of us and he doesnt understand you?!

[drag-n-race]

SO MAN GO DAM LONG POSTS THAT I DON"T WANT TO READ!!!!!!!!!