help me

[jboyce]

well me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year now, but for some reason i cant get her past out of my head, i'll think about how many guys she slept with (10) and it pisses me off, i've only been with 4 girls, i always picture her with the guys she slept with, well at least the ones i know, and i feel this hatred toward her. I also still get jealous really easy, even if she tells me some guy was hitting on her i wanna break his nose. i don't like her going to party's without me either. i trust her i think, it's that i don't trust guys around her. she doesn't really have any of these feelings i don't think, i'm wondering why do i still get angry at all this dumb stuff, i just want to love her and not worry about her past or worry if shes cheating on me.

thanks for any help.

[lil_dcb7]

well me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year now, but for some reason i cant get her past out of my head, i'll think about how many guys she slept with (10) and it pisses me off, i've only been with 4 girls, i always picture her with the guys she slept with, well at least the ones i know, and i feel this hatred toward her. I also still get jealous really easy, even if she tells me some guy was hitting on her i wanna break his nose. i don't like her going to party's without me either. i trust her i think, it's that i don't trust guys around her. she doesn't really have any of these feelings i don't think, i'm wondering why do i still get angry at all this dumb stuff, i just want to love her and not worry about her past or worry if shes cheating on me.

thanks for any help.

i got the same way sometimes about some girl i used to "trip" over. Me and her have a bad past, so it wasnt hard to get the idea of how many guys she was spooning out of my head. but when i was with her, yeah i thought about it and it irritated the hell outta me. I just dealt with it... Then again, we definately WERE NOT in love.... Wish I could help you bro, good luck

[turboh22aakkord]

judging by her picture... i would worry too haha jk but seriously ... im a really jealous guy to.. and im in the same boat my gf's fucked 12 other guys (damn slut) and that shit bothered me at first but i dont care anymore... the sexual stuff doensnt mean as much as time goes by... its the relationship that counts ... good luck man

[jboyce]

so after time this should just all fade, i'm only worried cause it's been a year and month and i still feel this way.

[souldoubt]

... the sexual stuff doensnt mean as much as time goes by... its the relationship that counts ...

you'll learn, in the end all that matters is how you & her get along. as long she's giving it to you thats what counts

[FDAccord]

well stop showing her off to us and i'll quit bonin' her!~!!!!

[br0nx finest]

well stop showing her off to us and i'll quit bonin' her!~!!!!

hahaha, ownage!

well i guess i can be proud of my girl who only had 4. i mean, i wish it were less, but hey it looks better than most. but yeah, over time you should forget about this, because she's giving it to you, and when you get married (if you do) you'll never even think about it.

[drucifer92]

I only fuck virgins.

[91ACCORDSIR]

[QUOTE=br0nx finest]hahaha, ownage!

well i guess i can be proud of my girl who only had 4.QUOTE]

Owned my White bitch has nevar fucked not even me but guys good luck with ur girls i kno it has 2 be hard 2 think about that shit when yall be trying 2 b nice to your girls and spend time with them but look at it like this if you want a girl with less sexual partners stick with Virgins(im not a virgin) but look for the innocent loooking girls

[MRX]

Never dwell in the past. What ever happened in her past makes her the loving and appreciative g/f she is to you. You could almost say its a good thing because she knows a good home when she sees one.

[jeesare]

Look man, its not healthy at all to think about the past. You can't do nothing about the past. What ever happened, happened and you were not present. Girls can tell you how many guys they slept with, but how do you know for sure? You can't run a DickFax on the bitch so its not worth asking. Jealousy is the worst thing in a relationship. Without trust, theres nothing at all. Everyone has a past. NOW...if she is still involve with the past then its a different story. Its normal to get pissed about the past. Knowing your girl slept with other men. But if you supplying the wood like no other, then she has no reason to think about the past. If guys stare at her and hit on her, its all good. I like having people want what I have. Just take care of her. Put the PAST behind you man, IF NOT....you will never have a happy and healthy relationship. How do I know? Cause I went through the same shit. Hope I helped you out and good luck.

[accordaffair]

Listen to Chris Rock

You should follow Chris Rocks advice, don't ask. Why do you want to know anyway? Because any number she gives you is gonna be too much for you anyway. She could say 2, and you'd be like "2!.....2, I can't believe it, 2?!...that must just be the way you was raised" And any number she gives will be wrong anyway. If she says 2 its more like 4, if she says 6 its more like 8. You gotta give every girl a 2 dick curve. Besides she's not gonna give the number of times she's had sex, she'll tell you the number of boyfriend's she's had. That time in Jamaica doesn't count, that was a whole different country! We're talking about domestic dick here.

[gloryaccordy]

LOL @ Dickfax...

And yea you gotta be ready for it if you ask. My girl laid everything out for me prob. the 3rd or 4th week we were dating, and we've been super-close ever since. If you're not ready, don't ask...and don't be mad with what you hear.

[HenRoc]

It sounds like you sound really insecure man.

Relationships are based on trust...and if you trust her and you know that she obviously loves you for the person that you are man then you have nothing to worry about.

I used to be like that at first with my gf but after a year I dont even bother to think about her past (because her ex's were both dickheads).

If you trust her man then try not to worry to much but if your gonna say you can't trust her then you need to talk to her and tell her how you really feel. If you get it out in the open then you'll know for sure if she does love you or not.

[h22sparkle]

In this case this situation is not that serious. As long as she didnt cheating on you at the present you shouldnt worry about it. The way I see it you ned to stop dwelling into the past and let past shit go yaknow i mean as long as your the one and only fuckin her you should be straight and dont let noone set you different. dont be insecure sure i know its hard not to being that you must really care for this broad and all just whatever happens is gonna happen. Remember i told you so so stiback relax and life and your instincts with determine your destiny.