GIRL/Family Problems

[SuperTuner12010]

I need some oppinions please.

Here is the situation.
Ronnie-my cousin
Britany-my cousins X, my new gf

-My cousin broke up with his X who Iv known and liked since elementry school.Well they broke up becuase she found out he kinda had another girl on the side and he was only taking Britany for a ride anyways.When they broke up he knew I had a thing for her and didnt care if we dated, he was only in it for the pu**ie.I had been going to her house alot and my mom asked who she was, and I was like a firend, she got in a different voice and said "its not ronnie's X is it". So I knew she didnt want me with Britany. So I said no.

Ok well yesterday ronnie just came out and said he wouldnt want me going out with her and well we already were so I said what ever.He told me a few nights ago he wanted her back.Today he looked on myspace and saw I was in a relationship and Britany was number 2 on my friends.So he found out my password deleted her from my friends and put single.He then came to my house and asked If I was happy with Britany.I acted dumb and said we wernt( the reason I said no is because I could tell he was mad) then when I said no he got all happy and glad. Like he was relieved

So my mom doesnt want me dating her and I dont know why, and she doesnt know we already are.
MY cousin wants Britany back and doesnt want me going out with her now when he said he didn't care in the first place.

Im not going to brake up with her because of my mom and cousin becasue well I might not be in love but I do lover her, me and her were like maid for each other and we both bring out the best in each other.

So I need help, im stressing over this and Im lying witch I hate doing espescialy when it is people cloose to me.

[cleanz_28]

umm...don't let a girl get in between a freindship.
if anything lie your ass off and say your not with her...but let her know what your doing.So you dont look like a giant jackass.

Sounds like ur cousin is a player. let him cool off.

[head4life]

high school drama dear lord


tell your cousin to STFU and deal with it

[SuperTuner12010]

LOL I hate this high scholl drama.My cousin is a playa and I fucking hate that shit.What about my mom, I can lie to her but I dont know how to tell her.

[cleanz_28]

umm say u meet some one online...lol

[SuperTuner12010]

My mom new her name was Britany, so im just thinking to tell her her Name is Britany but its not the same person

[cleanz_28]

ya say shes lives uptown or something like that...

[Beefy]

fuck yr cousin man. tell him to fuck off. he broke up with her. so that made her fair game. and ask yr mom what her problem is. so what if it is yr cousins x

[avendi]

In my opinion, I think you should just tell the truth.
Lying just gets you in trouble, especially with people close to you.
If your mom has such a problem, then ask her in a respectful way why she feels that way.
As for your cousin? Tell him exactly how you feel. If he can't understand, then he has some maturing to do.
Worst comes to worst, there's always waiting. You're still young after all.

[r0gergcm]

its not going to work out. you were not made for eachother. and my guess is you probably don't bring the best out in eachother(especially if this relationship causes alienation from your parents/friends, etc..).

fuck her and drop her though

[SuperTuner12010]

its not going to work out. you were not made for eachother. and my guess is you probably don't bring the best out in eachother(especially if this relationship causes alienation from your parents/friends, etc..).

fuck her and drop her though

Im not like that though.....not at all....But my mom hasn't even met her, she just thinks because she is my cousins X that we shouldn't be going out.

[quakerjoe]

In my opinion, I think you should just tell the truth.
Lying just gets you in trouble, especially with people close to you.
If your mom has such a problem, then ask her in a respectful way why she feels that way.
As for your cousin? Tell him exactly how you feel. If he can't understand, then he has some maturing to do.
Worst comes to worst, there's always waiting. You're still young after all.

x2

If your not sugar coating it at all, then your cousin just wants what he cant have. Kind of like when my brother use to take things from me when we were kids. He had the same exact thing he just wanted mine instead of his. He realized this and now its making it hard on you. Tell him how you feel and DONT LIE ANY MORE!! very important man. Lying creates distrust and sets eveyone back and blows situations out of proportion. I know its hard to go and talk to them about it cause its obvious you think alot of them if its causing you grief. Just talk to them respectfully and ask for the same in return.

[jhondayaaj]

bro's before hoe's. that's my input. don't take it the wrong way though. It's against me to go out with any of my friends or familily's ex. sorry.

[FishyMan]

You guys can bang each other like red necks. You and your cuz. JK!

It sounds funny that your censoring shit out and talking about myspace being number 2 and all that fun online *** shit. JK!

Seriously, just let it go. Your mother being a more experienced person in life sees all the troubles, hence she is already telling you not to get involved. You should talk to her and just let her know, but I guess your *** ball cousin whose a jerk.

Here's a math problem.
Cousin has 2 parters, A & B
A = Side Girl
B = Girl your With
C = Your Cuz
D = You

A has HERPES so now A = C
But the A = B = C

Do you wanna be D ?

[King James]

wow I wish my problems in life could be this simple again....no offense man..

Your cousin is being stupid...tell him to fuck himself...and who says this girl would even go back out with even if you werent in the picture.

You should get your mom to meet this girl so she can get to know her and she will get over if this girl is chill.

Enjoy problems like this while they last