GirlFriend Wanting 3some!?

[AG17CB7]

what in the..? is that suppose to be a joke?

[Chrisisiced]

What I haven't told though is that it would probably be her cousin! Does that chaoge anything?

Well maybe it isnt so bad then. She wont leave you for her cousin. Will she

[jdmwannabe]

Deev and Ralphie have covered the subject very well. My girl thought it would be cute and asked if I wanted to do the same thing. After thinking about it for a couple days I told her no because I plan on marrying her and I would never want that tension between us.

[bcjammerx]

3-ways tend to end relationships ... usually

I'm not believing this...sounds like she has some SERIOUS sexual issues she needs to seek a psychologist. maybe sexual abuse.

I would avoid this chick like the plague

[chessboxer]

Thanks for the advices guys. I know all this sounds crazy but besides her Bi nympho side, she's an amazing caring GF. I must admit though that I would enjoy doing an other girl. Not because she's not enough or anything but because it would be new and therefore exciting. It's not like I would have feelings for the other girl. What I haven't told though is that it would probably be her cousin! Does that chaoge anything?

Even though I live in KY, where this is common, I cannot condone such actions, at least not staying with her.
I now whole heartedly say do it, do them both, and gtfo. Being incestual is not one of the things that go into creating a healthy relationship.

[AG17CB7]

i'm still wondering about the whole cousin issue. what the hell

[Gyuri87]

i'm still wondering about the whole cousin issue. what the hell

Well it's her cousin of her dad's side of her family. Her mom and him were long divorced after she was born and she really didn't see her much in her life till now and don't "accord" too much importance to it. It's just that she's the first commer.

[MRX]

Which still makes it a blood cousin. Just say no. Has the potential to cause more problems than is worth it for the momentary pleasure

[NorcoAccord]

My girlfriend wasn't me to try the same thing and i get to touch, but for some weird reason I still say no, a 3rd person just adds too much bs to a relationship. I would consider just higher a call girl just so you don't have to know her and you will probably never see her again.

[vinbon63]

Even though I live in KY, where this is common, I cannot condone such actions, at least not staying with her.
I now whole heartedly say do it, do them both, and gtfo. Being incestual is not one of the things that go into creating a healthy relationship.

I totally agree with chessboxer here. If I were you I would not be able to take her seriously anymore knowing that she feels ok to get in with her cousin. Even though it may seem kind of mean, take you chances as chessboxer said, get in, do what you gotta do with both of them, and bail. If I were u and u used to be serious about the girl, I wouldn't be anymore. just my .02.

[kit-to-lip]

bullshit! double standard! idk, if it was me i wouldnt want to watch my chick with any other person, guy or girl. u know whats going to happen dont u? their going to end up going at it, while u end up in the corner of the room rubbing urself! hahaha!

[chessboxer]

Man, you all must be ***.
Im kidding, and I have nothing against being homosexual, I promise.
2 girls getting it on is fecking awesome.
/warped childhood induced posting.

[fatboy1185]

dont do it

[MikeW]

In the words of Billy Talent, "Try Honesty"



Im all for trying a 3some, but it HAS to be mutually agreed upon. You both have fair play with the 3rd person. If one of you doesnt want the other to do anything with the 3rd person, then its OFF. However, if you tell her you dont wanna do it, and she gets all pissed off and shit, GTFO. Dont put up with that shit. You're trying to keep your relationship together and when you turn down a 3some, and she freaks out...no way.

And then to add to it, involving a blood relative of hers...

1. That leads me to believe that she's not entirely serious about the whole thing. A relative, you feel more comfortable with and its less likely to be awkward. Which means shes afraid of something. Which means she hasnt had as much experience as shes led you to believe.

2. By involving a "cousin" leads me to believe this is just some cute little "whatever". She doesnt have a genuine, true, sexual feeling/interest towards women. shes just curious and what better way to explore than with a close friend or semi-distant family member?

And often times, the idea of a 3some is brought up becasue that party doesnt feel things are as "firey" as they once were. Meaning the relationship is falling apart.

Remember, a 3some(or any "group" sexual activity) is essentially a "Cheat-4-Free" card.

And she's allowed to play, but you're not?! Huh uh. It dont work that way, sweetheart. Either you both get to play, or nothing at all. Thats FAIR.

Just sounds like she wants to cheat/explore/experiement(whatever) and she wants your approval. You have to be there to see it, beacuse if she does it behind your back, she'll feel guilty. Which means, something aint right.

Id almost go so far as to say she's trying to find a way out. She wants you to get mad and start a fight and you'll end up breaking up. OR, you'll allow her to "cheat" right in front of your own eyes. Which again, is cause for break-up.

I would just tell her your feelings/thought. BE HONEST. Tell her, "I dont think its fair that you get to have twice the fun, while i have to sit and do almost noting. I say we both just have fun, no matter what happens."

If she doesnt buy it or says "no way." Then tell her thats the only way you'll feel comfortable doing it. If she doesnt agree with you, then you need to start worrying about things other than 3somes. The future of your relationship, perhaps.

GL.

[hondaccordgrl]

I'll be the first::::

PIX OR BAN

of both said persons(females)