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    Help Please?

    ok i just went of facebook and realized this kid who i went to highschool left has had some crazy facebook messages. Im not really friends with him but we only has 155 kids in my grad class so we all know each other. We already had one suicide, (my good friends JT RIP).. these have been his status as of late.

    ________is unsure what to do tonight, or tmmrw, or the next day, or the next.....
    ________is here, but may be gone again, as here is not a good place to be, and being by himself for a long time may be a good thing....

    ________and it only gets worse as life goes on.....how r people still alive at that rate....

    ________up again..another day great

    _________is fuck it (today)

    _______i had the gun to my temple...and cudnt pull the trigger...why am i such a pussy. (8 min ago)

    i know he has gun ( his dad is a cop) WTF do i do...like how do i deal with this?
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    #2
    shit dude thats pretty surious.

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      #3
      Send him a PM on FB. If you're concerned, make yourself available to talk. He's obviously reaching out, reach back.

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        #4
        Any change? (yeah, I know you probably aren't up at 3...)

        If you're really concerned, call the cops, or his parents (if that's not one in the same...)






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          #5
          Originally posted by deevergote. View Post
          Any change? (yeah, I know you probably aren't up at 3...)

          If you're really concerned, call the cops, or his parents (if that's not one in the same...)
          Deevs has a point. Someone needs to know, but the best thing you can do is ask him what you can do for him. He needs to know that he's worth enough for someone to offer to do something for him. I went through something similar with one of my ex's. All I can say is I learned a lot. Just make yourself available and don't judge them from your point of view. Look at it through their eye's. They're probably embarassed enough and know what they are doing/want to do is wrong.


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            #6
            I talked to him on facebook... he says he is having a rough time dealing with college. He dropped out of stockton to go to CCC (Camden County College) and his parents are not thrilled. They are puttin alot of pressure on him is my guess. Plus in my town if you go to a County College your looked down at by teachers/students and other parents. We have kids lie about where they go to school every year to say they are going to a better school than they are. The kid was never really a popular kid but he did have a small group he hung with and they all went to college together up north so he doesnt get to see them and he feels alone. HE also never drank in High School and now he is drinking alot. I told him to not worry about what others think and to enjoy CCC for the automotive program they have. (what he wants to do but his parents done). Also i told him he could visit me sometime or meet up sometime in town. He seemed really happy by the end of our talk. Maybe he just needed a friend?

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              #7
              Man, I went to CCC myself. Then I went to Rutgers, which is considered on par with the Ivy League schools (it's called the "Public Ivy", because all the Ivy League schools are private). CCC was more difficult, more organized, and I felt considerably more challenged there. If I could go back there for my graduate degrees, I totally would. That school is nothing to be ashamed of! They're actually among the best community colleges in the country, and have turned down offers to become a 4 year school.






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                Originally posted by deevergote. View Post
                Man, I went to CCC myself. Then I went to Rutgers, which is considered on par with the Ivy League schools (it's called the "Public Ivy", because all the Ivy League schools are private). CCC was more difficult, more organized, and I felt considerably more challenged there. If I could go back there for my graduate degrees, I totally would. That school is nothing to be ashamed of! They're actually among the best community colleges in the country, and have turned down offers to become a 4 year school.
                i know man if I didnt get money from rowan i would have gone there for 2 years. Its this stupid Haddonfield thinking where if you go to CCC you are dumb. I know of my grade alone 3 people who lied about going to a 4 years school and went to CCC. i mean lied to everyone, They wore a college clothes on SR day. Made a sign for graduation for that same college. I know kids who lied sayin they going to Penn State or Boston College when really going to Rutgers or Lehigh. Idk its these dumb kids and the parents. I didnt grow up here im happy with rowan even though i was told by even my friends o that a good fall back school anyone gets in at rowan. lol yeahhh ok

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