casual encounters

[C91BLX7]

If your having trouble stick with the H&H

[rexload]

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excuse my noobness

[crazymikey]

^I agree 100%^ point made lest Saturday when i went out to the bar w/ my brother in law. I usually go out lookin to dance n get shot down every now and again, but i went out ready for pool after the strip club n got mad attention. Women for the most part feed off attention. the less you give, the more they want n will show that they are interested, and don't risk catching an STD. Especially over something you're paying for. Just be patient.

I ignore the shit out of women and nothing ever becomes of it.

I'm even a downright asshole sometimes.

My 'being an ass' act gets me told that "you're being an ass."

[Night Wolf]

No I didn't say I'm going pay as I realized it is a terrible idea.
As for models for adult films... that's an interesting idea... so essentially I would pay them and setup a few cameras in the room making it seem like I am making a porn?

no, no, no. you dont pay them. its an audition. your "seeing" if they got the stuff to do films. also youll need an office, or a hotel room, a suit. plus some fake paper work. theyll think its real. oh & dont forget to get their consent on film, & have them hold up 2 forms of gov ID on film too. then you can start. the best part it, sense its "for a film", theres nothing off limits you can try.

EDIT: Also, you fail to realize that y'all have it much easier than us. We have to impress y'all, not so much y'all have to impress us. We have to work harder and follow a bunch of rules written in invisible ink to gain the slightest amount of interest from y'all.

^^^ so fucking true. the odds are on the womans side in this country.

Nice women exist....

mostly as single mothers.....

^^^ stay away from that dude. they might not admit it, but in the end, they want you to be its dad. & theyll use sex to lock your ass in.

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If your having trouble stick with the H&H

H&H? is that M&Ms off brand candy?

[C91BLX7]

Your hand and your homies. They won't let you down.

[MikeW]

Personally, I don't understand meaningless encounters. I'd much rather have something with emotion attached. Without that, a woman is nothing but a sex toy that is a potential source of drama, disease, or offspring...

Emotionally attaching can still come with dfama, disease and offspring...

Well if you spend money on a nice dinner, couple glasses of wine and maybe a movie or some sort of early evening entertainment... you are attempting to trade you time and money for sex.


Therefore every woman in America is a hooker.

Pretty much.

Yeah, but being a jerk to get a girl's attention is one thing... that's just the psychology of the chase. The same goes for chasing after girls that aren't all that interested in you. THAT is a waste of time and money.

Just looking for casual sex is another thing, though. The purpose of taking a girl out on a date isn't just getting laid... at least it shouldn't be for anyone over the age of 17...
If you're an adult, and all you want is sex, you can simply find another adult that wants the same thing. If a guy and a girl just want a random hookup, they can be open about it. Do it, and be done with it. If you have to beat around the bush to get to doing the deed, then there's a serious maturity issue involved... and that will lead to drama. It could be one of the two crying because they got unnecessarily emotionally attached. It could be the angry coked-up roid-poppin' boyfriend of the girl coming after you. Who knows...

If you just want sex, find a girl that just wants sex. Don't pay for it. Don't make a big deal of it. Just be safe.
However, don't expect any feeling of fulfillment. Meaningless sex is nothing more than complicated masturbation. When you're done, and your brain returns to its normal state, your first thought will be "ugh... now I'm all sticky..."

If the general thought is "I expect you to give me sex in exchange for the lobster you're eating right now"... then yes, technically. And if there's an explicit agreement that the fancy dinner = sex, then yes, that IS prostitution.
However, dating is SUPPOSED to be more about an interpersonal connection... not just the prelude to bumping uglies. Again, if everything on a date is simply a dance to mask the fact that both parties are interested in nothing more than sex... then it's a maturity issue. If it's ONLY about sex... then make it ONLY about sex.






As a psychologist with a primary focus on relationships, I probably should stay out of these conversations... I get the stone-age male mentality, and the horny ice-queen mentality... but I don't see the point of it.

The problem seems to be messing with women who play games in the first place.
Women who know what they want don't do that.

Guys need to understand that the whole of the American Culture encourages woman to be game playing, money chasing, shallow chicks. It creates the problems yall have to deal with. Think about that the next time you watch Jersey Shore. (lolz)

I advise my guy friends to not even begin to date a woman who seems luke-warm, or like they are playing games.
And for gods-sake, if they seem to like being treated badly, RUN AWAY.
Those are the kind of women that need, and create, the drama in their lives.

Hip hop is not where I would go for dating advice.
But you rock on with that.

Having visited/spent time in ALL of the cities you named- I am not ignorant of the centers of the media fueled bitch-fest epidemic.

What I am, is saying "You been fuckin wit the wrong type o'bitches".

NY, Miami or Fuckin Fargo, these things are true.
Nice women exist....



mostly as single mothers....



but they DO exist.

These are all true. Especially LadyG. Id say between her and deev, youve got yourself some bonified advisors.

Your hand and your homies. They won't let you down.

U SILLY.

[Tippey764]

Your hand and your homies. They won't let you down.

sup?

[Law Grandeur]

ummm.... ya ok

lol i agree

i dont even stare at a woman that has a child. i'd tap it maybe but i would never date one. i hate kids to begin with...why should i start to care for one that isnt mine?


not to mention most women WITH kids are just AS crazy and twisted

[owequitit]

Hookers charge on the front end, and girlfriends charge on the backend.

Either way you pay for sex.

Also, while prostitution is illegal in MOST places, it is legal in Nevada in many parts. There are even some very reputable houses of ill repute outside of Reno. Just food for thought...

Honestly though, you should probably just hit up the sites, be upfront about what you want, and go from there. I am sure there are chicks out there that want FWB type setups too. Maybe even hot ones. For disease and shit your probably not any worse off than banging some random chick from a club. Just remember not to rawdog the randoms and you should be fine.

[owequitit]

lol i agree

i dont even stare at a woman that has a child. i'd tap it maybe but i would never date one. i hate kids to begin with...why should i start to care for one that isnt mine?


not to mention most women WITH kids are just AS crazy and twisted

As you get older the odds of finding someone with kids goes up rapidly. Kids aren't for everyone, but it doesn't get easier to find them without kids as you age.

Besides, sometimes they ARE crazy, but they are less likely to fuck around because they have mouths to feed, and have probably already been jerked around a lot, so the hope would be they learned something.

[Leung]

Man i was a member of POF a couple of years ago, met a nice asian girl.
Anyhow.. i told her that i was on there actually looking for a girlfriend and not sex. I never heard from her again. If she wanted to just bump uglies, i would have more then been willing to oblige just ask.

But whomever said it before, that site seems to have a lot of women who have some serious baggage.

Hookers charge on the front end, and girlfriends charge on the backend.

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If you rape a prostitute, is it still rape or is it shoplifting?

[Law Grandeur]

that is true.


Over here, women usually dont get the hang of things until they hit their early to mid 30s. I guess that is when they realize they aren't getting any younger. They still have that habit of wanting a "bad guy" and for some reason think they can change him. It is really odd.

[owequitit]

that is true.


Over here, women usually dont get the hang of things until they hit their early to mid 30s. I guess that is when they realize they aren't getting any younger. They still have that habit of wanting a "bad guy" and for some reason think they can change him. It is really odd.

I think that is just a woman thing. I see it constantly. One reason I am always single? I don't put up with the bullshit. I still to this day can't figure out why they pretend to want a nice guy, but in many cases still want someone who drags them around by the hair like in the good ole days...

[Law Grandeur]

lol so true

[thepowderblue]

Craigslist and backpage
Done ever post adds just reply, trust me on this one.