Get back with the EX GF?

[thewoahna]

OK, some of you may remember the post about 4 months ago about me and my girlfriend breaking up... Well, tonight I went out to eat with my homies like every Sunday night, and my EX was there... we started to talk, and then when I got home, we talked on the phone for another 1/2 hour... Well, we both made it clear that we both miss each other and that we both still love each other, in fact, that our love has grown for each other over the past 4 months... we were talkin about possibly gettin back together because I told her that if we both care for each other like we do, it seems stupid to be doing this to ourselves... she told me again and again that she is going to have to make school a priority (she is going to be a nurse, them classes are crappy) and that she would not be able to be with me as much as she would like to me, and she did not want that to hurt me... I told her in the beginning that I was willing to do anything to make us work out, even if that ment only seein her once a week... Just knowing that she was there, and that she was my GF... Anyway... What do you think? Give it another try? Forget her and move on (have been tryin the last 4 months, not much luck)?

[kidd262]

way to go man!

u know what, she must be reallyyyyyy miss u.


Go .. Go... Goooo

[deevergote]

You know I've been there for you from the beginning, Ken... I say do what feels right. If you stay away from her, you're gonna miss her and be miserable. If you get back with her, you have a chance of getting hurt again, and being miserable. However, in that case, you also have a chance to be happy. You've gone 4 months trying to see other girls, and nothing has changed about the way you feel. It WILL pass in time, if you force it. However, do you really want it to pass?

I'm in a similar situation, in a way. I've been with my girlfriend on and off for over 6 years. We spent the past year "off" due to my feeling that I needed to see other people (that was the first time I broke it off... the others were her, for similar reasons). I tried dating, and couldn't let go of her. It just felt right. We're back together now, and just for the fun of it we went looking at rings a couple weeks ago!


Do what you truly feel is right. You've tried to rationalize not being with her, but something tells me nothing has really changed.

[iamnemo]

I'm with deever. Just do what feels right. I mean, you seem to be pretty well smitten with this girl if you're syaing stuff like "I'd do anything to be with you." I know how you feel...I say the same exact things to my girlfriend and mean every word of it.

I think if you're both willing to bend some to make the relationship work, it will work.

[Nycxeracer]

People make mistakes. End of story.

[Slateboy]

If you're reading this, get off the fucking computer and go give her a smooch. Just think of me while you're doing it.

j/k j/k

[accordtunerx]

Originally posted by Slateboy
If you're reading this, get off the fucking computer and go give her a smooch. Just think of me while you're doing it.

j/k j/k

nooooooooo!

but, i would definitely give it another chance with her. i mean, you really have nothing to lose. she's left you before - so it wouldn't be much of a surprise/hurt if she does it again. so i say.. take her back, but don't get your hopes up... just be yourself and see what happens.

[GrayCar]

The EX? I thought you were talking about your car...

[iamnemo]

Originally posted by GrayCar
The EX? I thought you were talking about your car...

I kinda thought he was being clever about it when I first saw the title...

[GrayCar]

I thought I was being clever.

[AccordWarrior]

Hey man, we've talked a lot about her and everything...from what you tell me...even though you try and rationalize that you're over her...you're totally not...I'd honestly say go for it...see what happens...try and not get too attached to her and just feel things out...see if its still there when you try and get into a real one on one situation....but best of luck

[accordzoom]

YES, I agree with pretty much everyone... give it a go and see what happens... be pretty lenient though, i had an ex that went to school for the same and i too went thru EMT classes and it takes alot of energy and studying..i was exhausted and rarely ahd time for much of anything.

I'm sure things will work out for the best, Good Luck !

[h22sparkle]

Well this is what I would do, I would see someone else just incase if she does the same thing again I always have a plan b. Speak to othe rpeople to get her off your mind other girl friends dont just stick to one girl.

Cause if she left you shell do it again,and again and again..... you know the rest. BUt hey Take your time dont rush if she blows it off dont sweat it youll always have another chick to drop on. If her priority is school first sure but dont let her get in the way of yours. Do your thing at the same time shes doin hers that way noones hurt and everyones happy

[HenRoc]

man id say go for it.

If its meant to be then its meant to be. You have our upmost support here at Cb7tuner.com

hey by the way what happened to MidnightRacerX?

[h22sparkle]

yeah whatever did happen to him?