Some quick relationship advice

[wildBill83]

No PIITB yet. No one has shared the secret with me.

It's simple... swap the tequila for rum and bring KY ... there I dropped the secret. If there is enough rum involved by the time she realizes what is going on you have time to say, "oh! I'm sorry, wrong hole".

Tequila = fights
Rum = panties on the floor

Maybe I should have PM'd that to keep it off the radar...

[GeoffM]

Well, I definitely can't show her this thread now

Haven't really drank much rum since we've been together. I guess I'll get some the next time we drink

Btw, every time I see your name (Wildbill) I think of a pornstar.
I'm not really sure if there's one named that, but I wouldn't be surprised.

[wildBill83]

LOL, I just googled "wild bill porn" and went with the I'm feeling lucky button and got some porn site named Wild Bill's Udder Valley Ranch with some fat chicks on it. www.uddervalleyranch.com <- incase you like fat chicks with big jugs.

Then I googled Wild Bill porn star and got a link to a porn star's filmography for movies staring Wild Bill. http://www.iafd.com/person.rme/perfi...7-williams.htm

Are you sure you didn't already KNOW of a porn star named Wild Bill. (and no I'm not him!)

[ferenza]

Liquor always shows what everybody feels deep down inside. And it doesnt help with all the other newly single women influencing her like that either. They brought that arguement out more than ever because now she thinks they are having fun , shit maybe i need to think otherwise as well.
Most arguements between a couple that usually ends in lets not being together,means they dont be together or if they still are one person strays away. You two need to get your most deepest feelings out away from people, and AWAY from the alcohol. Confide in each other. If not other outside forces (i.e. Siblings,friends) may end your relationship. But if its meant to be , then move on while you are still young.

Wild Bill Udder Valley Ranch

[uslspct]

Status...?

[Dy2*STR33T-KING]

Well here's my situation. Im with a girl who got pregnant the second night we slept together. Or second date lol and I stayed with her for my son. Now she's a complete idiot and argues over EVERYTHING. Even shit she tells me to do. I can't win. Now I would leave her BUT this is my third baby mama lol and child support would kill me if I had to pay for one more AND she wont leave cause she doesn't have anywhere else to go. Sucks for me cause I wanna just be single and throw my hot dog into any bun that will take it (which is why I have 3 kids) but anyways back to the subject. I agree with a few ppl here because the easiest way through all my fights is to just stay quiet and say uh huh, yep, your right, Yes mam, glad you explained it to me, Jesus Christ your smart, glad IM with someone who knows what's going on. Anything like that lol but you have no kids with her so if it's that much trouble just move on. Easiest way is to avoid her at all costs, calls, texts and NO FACE TO FACE. Seeing or hearing from them makes your heart weak and you end up forgiving them no matter how bad they hurt you.

[h22sparkle]

Honestly man lemme tell you something and this is coming from a real dude. Stand your ground but do it wisely sure you love this person alot , its hard I know this but if a person is giving you this kind of trouble without any change and the same issues keep repeating ,love them enough to let them go and move on.

The main reason why I say move on because you basically had your time with them and if they are that unstable it can only get worse down the line treated or not. I've seen it happen too many times people ending up in turmoil, jail and whatnot you don't want that trust me. I say this because if she's a special person and she ends up causing you physical harm she can literally get away with it in court claiming that.

I got nothing against bipolar people but they require special care and attention and needs.you have to move on with someone who is stable and that understands you. Just make sure you get to know the person who your dealing with a little better and the more you find out about them the better it is for you to decide to deal with them or not. That's why I don't blame anyone for taking 8 years before getting married its when its rushed begins chaos.

[GeoffM]

I didn't realize this was an update thread

I have the rum! We've been too busy to drink it.
Tonight I may have a few shots, but it's only to calm down the "after" of studying for an exam.

Today as we parted ways, it felt like the void we encountered at the beginning of spring has passed.
I let her know, and she agreed.

Due to our schedules, she's essentially moved in as well. Stays here Sunday - Wednesday.
I'm at her house over the weekend.

Oh, and her mom has (supposedly) made the giant leap and called a lawyer.
I think she was expecting divorce within the week. I think it'll take a bit longer.

Her sister actually moved out of her parents home, due to the dad being a dick.
To be fair, she is very much a bitch to him.

And to round things up, she'll be back from work soon.
We haven't done it since yesterday morning when we were in the midst of studying.
I'm going to go set the bed up and wait for her.

[phatdoughnut]

Women are crazy, some hide it really well to get you hooked and then BAM! happened to my friend, spent all his money and shit.

I've been married for 11 years to my bestt friend. Sometimes we have hard time talking etc whatever. But a relationship should not be hard, you shouldn't have to work at it all of the time. It should just flow.

Another thing that I personally do is, not get jealous. So many guys and women get jealous over everything. I see at as, if she wants to go then she will go, no reason for me to be all freaked out about it. If she wants to go with her friends fine cool hand out check out guys whatever. I can't say that I don't check out girls from time to time. Its only human to do so.

Also pick and choose your battles :P

And don't tell her she is the most beutiful girl in the world because when she catches you looking at another girl she is going to get mad.


sorry for your problems